Devotionals
When God pulls you aside
Jan
In life, even when surrounded by people, there are moments where personal struggles remain uniquely personal. These are the moments when God pulls you aside to wrestle with matters of faith, purpose, or challenges only you can face. While the presence of others can offer comfort, the deepest battles of the soul are often fought alone—with God.
Alone, Yet Not Alone
Don’t get caught up in the idea of being “alone.” You are not truly alone. God is with you, and this solitude is often intentional. Just as a wrestler steps into the ring alone, so too must we face our spiritual battles on our own, even when people are close by. This design is not meant to isolate but to bring us into deeper reliance on God.
Biblical Examples of Solitude with God
Abraham: Walking with his son Isaac to the altar, Abraham was physically accompanied but spiritually alone as he wrestled with obedience and faith.
Jacob: His wrestling match with God (Genesis 32:24-30) epitomizes his lifelong struggle of faith. Alone in the night, Jacob’s perseverance brought him a blessing and a new name: Israel.
Joseph: Though surrounded by people in Egypt, Joseph lived as a lone follower of God, separated from his family but steadfast in his faith.
Daniel: Even with friends and royal favor, Daniel’s defining moments, such as praying in his room or facing the lions’ den, were encounters between him and God.
Moses: Despite leading the Israelites and having Aaron and Joshua by his side, Moses’ most pivotal moments, including the burning bush and receiving the commandments, were solitary experiences with God.
David: Whether as a fugitive or king, David’s spiritual battles, often captured in the Psalms, highlight his personal dealings with God: “Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me” (Psalm 23:4).
Solomon: With 700 wives and 300 concubines, Solomon’s life illustrates how even the most abundant companionship cannot substitute for a personal relationship with God.
Job: Surrounded by friends and family who failed to support him, Job’s faith journey was a solitary grappling with God and the nature of suffering.
Jesus Himself: The ultimate example of solitude with God, Jesus faced His greatest trials—temptation, prayer in Gethsemane, and crucifixion—alone. His closest friends could not stay awake or stand by Him in His hour of need.
Managing Expectations of Others
It’s natural to feel disappointment when friends or family fail to meet your expectations during your struggles. Sometimes, they are trying their best, but they have their own battles. Placing too much faith in others can lead to bitterness. Instead, limit your expectations and focus on maintaining healthy relationships. Remember, your ultimate reliance should be on God.
Wrestling with God
Just as Jacob wrestled with God, expect challenges as you grapple with your faith. It will be tough, and you may emerge with scars, but perseverance is key. God honors those who push through. In Genesis 32:26, God tested Jacob by urging him to let go, but Jacob’s determination brought a blessing.
This perseverance parallels the rigorous trials of Navy SEAL training, where recruits are tempted to quit during Hell Week by ringing a bell. The instructors make it easy to give up, but those who endure find themselves among the few who complete the program. Similarly, Galatians 6:9 reminds us: “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”
It’s all about growing closer to your Father
In moments when God pulls you aside, remember that solitude with Him is an opportunity, not a punishment. Lean into the struggle, trusting that He is with you and that the wrestling will yield growth, blessings, and a deeper relationship with Him.
